Happy New Year!!
It's going to be a great one - I feel it in my bones. Actually, what I feel is miserable and achy due to a cold front that's headed our way but that's beside the point. I've vowed to do my upmost to make this an outstanding year.
Yeah, I know, I can't control life, not even my corner of it. The only lives I control are those of the characters in my books. And man, do I have some awesome plot twists in store for them! But I also have plans for me - for my life. Plans I can implement no matter what the universe throws at me.
You see, over the years I've learned something. Well, I've learned lots of things but this particular lesson applies to this post. I've learned to let go of the outcome. That's the thing so many of us get hung up on. I always have. I thought that by following certain steps, plotting things out in just the right fashion, I had power over the end result.
(**giggle - choke - snort** Excuse me for a moment while I wipe away my tears of laughter.)
It's been a hard, hard lesson to learn - even harder to accept - but I HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THE RESULTS OF MY ACTIONS.
There. I put it in print so it must be true. Actually, it is. I have no say in how things are going to end up. Basically because I'm not an island of one. There are other people involved in my processes, whether directly or indirectly. And illnesses, falling outs, relocations, new employment, bankruptcy, marriage, death, the stock market, gas prices, the rain in Spain, just plain indifference - all of these things affect my end game. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't try my damndest to make whatever I've working on at that moment be exactly what I want it to be. Because for all the times my objective is circumvented there will be many more times it's not. And those are the moments when I shine.
So Happy New Year to all of you. I hope 2017 brings you everything you wish for and more importantly, everything you work for.
Now where did I put my to-do list?