How many moments have you wasted?
Me? I've wasted plenty. Too many! Moments spent wondering if this - this right here - is what I want to be doing with my life.
Granted, the 'this right here' has changed definition over the decades. At one point, it was opening my own day care center. Another, it was photography. At the present moment, it's being an author. But whatever I call it, it boils down to the same thing - not being satisfied with where I am in life. More importantly, not being satisfied with WHO I am.
Ah...the gotcha moment. Not being satisfied with who I am. The only problem is, I'm the one who made this person that occupies my skin. See my dilemma?
I've decided that I need to put an end to this behavior, this time-wasting, non-productive way of thinking...and living. I need to appreciate who I am right now and stop worrying about if it's where I should be. Because if I'm here - it's where I'm meant to be. I'm meant to experience each moment, good and bad and in-between. Maybe I'll be led to a new destination and maybe I won't. But this single moment is all I have that's truly mine so I need to learn to embrace it.
Sheesh. That last paragraph is full of stuff about what I 'need' to do. Forget the 'need' part. I'm doing this!! I'm changing my mindset - right here, right now. I'm living each moment for what it is. Am I meant to be an author for the rest of my life? No one knows the answer to that question. Do I want to be an author for the rest of my life? Maybe. Yes. I'm not sure. Take your pick. But I'm an author right now. Might as well enjoy the ride.
I'm through procrastinating my life away. I may not be the most happening writer out there. I may not be a trendsetter but who cares? I write what I like, what's in my soul, and that's enough for me. Hopefully, it'll be enough for the millions of readers out there, too. Cause I kinda like where I am at this moment and for the first time in my life, I don't want to think about who I might become. It's time to love who I am.
Who's with me?